I have mentioned that I love make-up before. I think I started wearing it when I was 12…..but really remember at about five-years-old sneaking into my moms make-up bag and making myself ‘pretty’ with blue eye shadow (thank you 1980’s)! My look had refined a little since then…..and after wearing it for more then 20 years, I have figured out a few products that are truly timeless and I will probably wear for the next 20 years.
Some of my favorite products are high end, but some of my all-time favorites are from the drug store and under $10! Some might be under $5! It is all about figuring out what works best for you and your lifestyle.
Most days my make-up routine can be done in about four minutes and does not include lipstick. I try to keep it simple. Here is what you can usually find in my make-up bag!
FEELING: Excellent! Wow! This pregnancy is flying by! Maybe because with my first pregnancy I had a lot of time to think about EVERY MOMENT……but now I hardly have a second to myself! She sure it growing quickly though. I feel her kicks and am love it. No, I am not one of those people who loves being pregnant, but am trying to take in that this will be my last baby and trying to enjoy the moment.
WARDROBE: Leggings. Lots of leggings. I feel like I am getting ‘dressed up’ when I put on jeans. Leggings are just so comfortable! Paired with a long sleeve shirt or cami and open sweater I’m usually dressed for the day. Since I don’t have a huge need for dressier clothes, I have gotten by with two dresses I wore over the holidays. I just change up the accessories and call it a day. And, lets not forget the power of a good pair of shoes.
CRAVING: Smoothies! Yum! I am starting to feel really full, really quick (as she is growing, I am losing space in there)….so they are filling me up and giving me a boost of vitamins and protein. Usually I include: Frozen Strawberries, banana, ice, baby spinach, avocado, Greek yogurt, a little bit of OJ. Delicious!
OVERALL THOUGHTS: This is getting real! I am a little bummed out that I wont have her nursery ready when she is born….we will be moving a month or two after her arrival….so there is no point in setting it up. But, I am getting my ideas together and will have all the pieces ready to set up.
I am also starting to freak out a bit (or a lot) about how I’m going to handle three kids! Charlie will be in full-time school this fall, but I am worried about getting through the summer. Luckily my mom and dad are around often and I have wonderful friends to help me though with moral support (and hopefully wine).
NAME UPDATE: Nothing set in stone. We are still negotiating and deliberating. But, don’t worry! We will know soon. I need time to order some monogrammed clothes for her big arrival!
I like my home to be clean. I shower and put on make-up daily. I like to make home made dinners. I smile and am usually a positive person. Apparently that makes me the most annoying mom on the internet.
No…..I’m not at all (remotely or even kind of close to) perfect. But, it seems lately online, if you are a stay at home mom and like the gig, so many mom blogger wants to make you feel bad for it. I am assuming most of these posts I hear are tongue and cheek. I actually can get a good laugh from some pieces. But I wonder if there is any seriousness to what they are saying. Like everyone else….I have bad days (like yesterday….pregnant, exhausted and a non-napping, teething toddler). But for the most part I love what I do!
I think it just part of how I was raised and my own type A personality, but I hate a mess and want things done ‘just so’. I will be the first person to admit I am a bit of a control freak. And yes, I have been known to complain to my husband after a long day with the kids…..that’s just natural. But I know when I wake up in the morning it is a chance to start fresh and put positive, happy vibes into the world.
I’ve actually gotten the side eye when I showed up to a play date freshly showered and in full make-up. I don’t think any less of moms who don’t do these thing. I think we all need to do what we need to do to get through the day.
Just because my house is (usually) clean does not mean I neglect my children. Freshly vacuumed carpets and gleaming kitchen counters make me feel calm and in control. Again, I’m not saying there is ANYTHING wrong with not doing it…..I just don’t like going to bed with dirty dishes in the sink.
And I LOVE Pintrest. Seriously, I do. I find it inspirational…..it give me great ideas and lets me show off my creativity. I don’t scroll through it and hate all of the pretty pins of cute ideas. I happen to think making a cupcake that looks like a lamb is a wonderful idea for a barnyard first birthday!
Yes, I often coordinate my kids outfits when we go out to dinner.
Yes, I do my best to bake homemade treats for my kid’s classroom parties.
Yes, I iron all of our pillowcases because I like them to look crisp. (Even I will admit this might be going too far).
These things make me happy! And if I am happy, I can enjoy the time (which is most of my time) with my family. In my opinion, being happy just does not come easily for everyone. Sure we all have happy (and sad) moments in life, but to be a genuinely happy person takes a little effort and work.
I want to know that I have given my best to everyday. I look back at old pictures and remember that I really did enjoy that trip to the zoo, or birthday party. Maybe it took me some extra effort, but to me it was worth it.
I am new to blogging. And I love it! Most of 2016 I was a contributor to a very well established blog and was able to write on a regular basis about all things being a mom. I got some great feedback from readers and realized I might actually have a voice that people would want to hear.
So I took the plunge and decided to do my own blog! And here I am. I launched it almost two months ago. I am learning by trial-and-error (many, many errors). Slowly I am finding my niche. And also, slowly people are checking my blog out!
One thing that has been my biggest hurdle is the whole selfie picture situation. Yes, on my social media I have had profile pictures of myself, but not many were actual ‘selfies’. I would often have to crop my face from a group picture. I’ve just never been a ‘selfie’ kind of person.
It’s not that I think I’m ugly…..I’ve just always been self conscious of taking a picture (or multiple) and posting them for the sake of posting them. I am completely in awe of my friends who can post a beautiful and interesting picture of themselves!
But, with that being said, doing a blog about my family and my life obviously was going to entail taking pictures of myself (or having someone else take pictures of me). Maybe I am comparing myself to other more established bloggers and don’t feel my pictures and composition are as good as theirs. It will take time.
So far, I haven’t gotten any horrible feed back (think: wow! You have a huge double chin! Or, hey! Your fly is open)! For some reason I have this nagging thought that people are laughing at me behind my back, but to me this is a slow, self discovery process that has taken me years! When I was little, I was so shy! I seemed to gain a voice during college, but it really didn’t come out until after I had children. If anyone is really laughing at me behind my back……guess what? I don’t care! Laugh away!
I am still a total novice at taking pictures of myself, and being in pictures…..but here are a few things I have learned along the way :
A little make-up goes a long way. Under-eye concealer, mascara and blush help me look and feel great.
You don’t have to look ‘perfect’ for every picture. No one is perfect. Not being perfect can be more interesting.
Natural lighting is your best friend. Using a flash can sometimes wash out your face.
Be conscious of your background! No one wants to see a dirty bathroom or a messy pile of mail behind you (unless it is part of your story)!
My husband is becoming a great photographer! He has no qualms about taking pictures and doesn’t feel the pressure that I do to take a perfect picture. Often his casual snap turn out great!
Sometimes emotion can outweigh getting the ‘perfect’ shot. Even if you don’t think you look great, showing real emotion can be very moving.
Use filters carefully! They can be your best friend or worst enemy. I prefer a little softening, but nothing that makes me look less human.
Do you take selfies? What do you do to make them look the way you want them to?